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The ultimate Mother’s Day game plan for dads who want to knock it out of the park this year
It’s that time again, fellas — time to let your moms (and the moms of your babies) know just how much you adore them.
Don’t panic! Mother’s Day isn’t until next weekend, May 10. But I figured I’d go ahead and hit you with our annual Mother’s Day Gift Guide now… you know, just in case you were thinking about waiting until the very last minute. Or worse, (gasp!) forgetting about the holiday altogether.
You would never, I know.
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For those who are new here, welcome. I’m Amber, and I write a column called Womansplaining on OutKick, where I give men a woman’s perspective on everything from dating and relationships to sex, marriage, and sometimes even celebrity romance drama and whatever nonsense is going viral on social media that week. Nothing is off-limits. We’re honest, we’re respectful, and we have fun here.
This column isn’t just for the boys, though. Ladies, you’re more than welcome — encouraged, actually — to chime in and share your two cents. Teamwork makes the dream work, baby!
At least, that’s what the poster in my niece’s kindergarten classroom says.
So with those pleasantries out of the way, let’s get into how you, gentlemen, can actually knock Mother’s Day 2026 out of the park.
I will preface this by saying these suggestions are not just my random musings. They are based on hard, scientific data. (Translation: me polling thousands of mothers via Facebook, Reddit and real life over the past three years of writing this column.)
Gentlemen, the results are in. And they are definitive.
I’ll save you a lot of time here. You don’t need to overthink this. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. You don’t need to panic-buy something random at CVS at 9:47 p.m. on Saturday night.
God, please don’t do that.
Because when I ask moms what they actually want for Mother’s Day, the answer is almost comically consistent: Rest. Peace. A day where they are responsible for literally nothing.
Motherhood is a beautiful and honorable calling. It’s also exhausting — especially for the moms “in the trenches” with babies and little kids who require something every 3.5 seconds.
And no, this isn’t to say grandmas and moms of grown kids don’t deserve to be celebrated. They absolutely do. But dads, if your wife is currently wiping butts, packing lunches, answering 47 questions before 8 a.m. and hasn’t sat down in peace since 2019… she doesn’t want a chaotic brunch reservation where she still ends up managing the kids. And she definitely doesn’t want to cook.
As one mom told me, she wants “a day where I make zero decisions.”
Another said she imagines heaven as “waking up to a spotless house and the smell of bacon.”
Fellas, I think we’re seeing a pattern here.
The good news is that you don’t have to scramble to book a luxury vacation or drop three month’s salary on diamonds. Although I’m sure she wouldn’t mind that, either.
But it’s really very simple.
Plan the entire day: Emphasis on the entire. Not “what do you want to do?” Not “where should we eat?” She should not have to use a single brain cell today.
You are now in charge of the kids: All day. Start to finish. Meals, snacks, outfits, sunscreen, meltdowns — it’s your time to shine, Daddio.
Handle the meals: Breakfast, lunch and dinner. They’re all up to you, whether you’re cooking, buying or ordering in.
Give her alone time: Real alone time. Not “I’ll take the kids for 20 minutes while you shower.” We’re talking hours. A nap. A bath. Silence. Maybe even plan a full day where she does whatever she wants with zero responsibilities.
Clean the house: Or better yet, hire someone to do it. And not just a quick tidy. I’m talking deep clean — baseboards, bathrooms, all of it. Year after year, this is one of the most requested “gifts” I hear from moms.
If you do all of these things, she’s going to have a great day. If you’re looking for some gift ideas, too, the next section is for you.
Those who have been reading Womansplaining for a while know that flowers are a non-negotiable for special occasions — birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day and, yes, Mother’s Day.
Ladies love flowers.
I don’t care how many times a woman has told you, “Oh, you don’t need to get me flowers. They just die anyway.”
They’re lying. Trying to appease you.
I mean, sure, some ladies are more into flowers than others. But no woman will ever be upset about her man walking through the front door with a smile and a fresh bouquet. That is a freebie. An uncontested lay-up. Take it.
But if you’re ready to go beyond that, buckle up. Because I’ve got some gift ideas, too.
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Something sentimental: A handwritten card from you telling her how much you adore her. A note from the kids telling her she’s the best mom in the whole world. Something that lets her know how special she is to your family.
An example: Decades ago, my mom bought my grandma a mother’s ring containing the tiny birthstones of all six of her kids. Until the day she died, my grandma never took off that ring.
Another example from reader Carol C.: “My son-in-law arranged for a photo shoot of my daughters, my granddaughters, my mom and me. Four generations of women. My mom is gone now, and I’m so grateful I have these pictures, I look at them every day.”
I’m not crying, you’re crying.
A gift that supports her hobbies outside of motherhood: This came up a lot. Workout classes, hiking gear, gardening supplies, books, skincare, whatever she’s into outside of raising tiny humans.
A gift card for a spa day or mani/pedi: I know gift cards sort of get a bad rap for being impersonal, but I also know a lot of men are clueless about services offered at a spa. Does she want a massage (Swedish or deep-tissue?), a facial (HydraFacial, chemical peel, anti-aging?) or specialized treatments (like hot stones, lymphatic drainage or microdermabrasion?) On her nails, does she like gel or dip? If you have no idea what many of those words mean, your best bet is a gift card to a nice spa — that way she can choose her own adventure.
If you look around, many spas offer packages for special occasions like Mother’s Day.
For example, I go to the Woodhouse Spa near my house in Tennessee (but they have locations in 25 different states), and if you buy a $250 gift card, you get a free luxury skin care set. Fellas, imagine the brownie points you will earn.
A “treat yourself” self-care splurge she wouldn’t buy on her own:
I’ve even had several women tell me they want Botox as a gift. There’s a very important caveat there, though. Do not, under any circumstance, buy your wife Botox unless she has directly, explicitly asked for it. The same goes for exercise equipment.
A night in a hotel by herself: I swear women scream this every year, and every year, male readers email me to tell me it’s dumb. But I am telling you, guys. If you have young kids at home (or even moody teenagers), your wife will lose her mind with excitement over a stay in a local hotel by herself. Let her sleep in, order room service and watch trashy reality TV in a plush robe without a single interruption.
If you really want to knock her socks off, prepare for her a little go-basket for her night away: a book/magazine, a bottle of wine, a bath bomb, her favorite snacks, a sleep mask. My goodness.
Of course, this hotel stay away from her children doesn’t have to be on Mother’s Day. Plan it for the night before, the weekend after, whatever makes sense for your schedule.
Just my two cents, but if you booked her a hotel stay on Saturday night and she came home to a brunch already prepared in a clean house on Mother’s Day… let’s just say you may end up with another kid in about nine months.
I have given you the game plan. Now let’s make sure you don’t fumble at the goal line.
If you have young kids, this is on you. They can’t plan a day. They can’t cook breakfast. They can’t drive to Target. You are the entire operation.
Yes, celebrate your mom — but don’t forget your wife. Your mom will be thrilled with a call, a card, flowers, a meal, time with her family. And she should get those things! The mother of your children — who is actively in the trenches — deserves a full-court press.
Do not take her somewhere she still has to “mom.” If you drag her to a family cookout where she’s chasing kids, prepping food and cleaning up while you’re working the grill with a beer… you have missed the point entirely.
“Don’t buy her anything she has to plug in.” A reader named Bruce shared this bit of wisdom with me last year, and I now include it in every Womansplaining gift guide. Sure, there are exceptions to everything. But in general, this is a very good rule to follow. Home appliances, cooking gadgets, vacuum cleaners… these are not thoughtful gifts. They are chores.
And one final reminder: this is not an attack on you, dads. I’m assuming you’re a great dad. I’m assuming you’re pulling your weight. But my scientific research (again, thousands of moms) has made one thing very clear: Mama needs a break. She longs to relax and be pampered.
Mother’s Day is your chance to give her exactly that.
I’ve laid out the plan. I’ve made it easy for you. It’s up to you to execute. And remember, your day is next month.
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Cracker Barrel Fans Outraged Again After NEW Major Change
Cracker Barrel built its reputation on comfort food, Southern tradition, and a menu customers could count on for decades.
That’s exactly why loyal diners are still fuming as the restaurant chain continues removing many of the classic dishes that helped make it a household name.
For years, customers have pleaded with the Tennessee-based chain to restore fan favorites that quietly disappeared from the menu, including black-eyed peas, fried haddock, red-eye gravy, fried chicken livers, and perhaps the most mourned item of all—the Sunrise Sampler.
For many longtime patrons, the Sunrise Sampler wasn’t just another breakfast. It was the breakfast.
The hearty platter came loaded with eggs, grits, fried apples, hash brown casserole, sausage, bacon, country ham, and biscuits with gravy—giving diners a taste of nearly everything Cracker Barrel had to offer without having to piece together a meal item by item.
“I noticed a while back that Cracker Barrel removed the GOAT of all breakfasts, the Sunrise Sampler, from the menu,” Josh Cooper, owner of Cooper’s Next Level BBQ in Tallahassee, Florida, told Fox News Digital. “You used to get a little bit of everything without breaking the bank.”
The meal hasn’t completely disappeared—but recreating it now comes with a catch.
Customers must order every component separately, turning what was once an affordable breakfast favorite into a considerably more expensive order.
“Now, in order to get that same teaser touch from the Sunrise Sampler, you have to order it all à la carte, which costs around $25 for the same great meal,” he said. “Blasphemy!”
Fox News Digital reached out to Cracker Barrel for comment.
The growing frustration over disappearing menu items comes after the company already faced a wave of backlash for attempting to modernize its image.
Last year, Cracker Barrel sparked outrage among longtime customers after unveiling a redesigned logo and updated restaurant interiors that many believed stripped away the rustic charm that had long defined the brand.
The changes were part of a sweeping $700 million overhaul across more than 660 locations, including menu revisions and a cleaner, less cluttered dining room design.
The company ultimately reversed course following widespread criticism, but many loyal customers say the damage had already been done.
The leadership shakeup continued last week when Cracker Barrel announced that CEO Julie Masino will step down on Aug. 10.
Former Bloomin’ Brands CEO David Deno is slated to take over.
For many customers, however, the issue extends far beyond a logo or a fresh coat of paint.
They believe corporate leadership has steadily chipped away at the very traditions that made Cracker Barrel stand apart from countless other restaurant chains.
Cooper said companies often underestimate the emotional attachment customers have to longtime menu favorites.
People are “asking for comfort and nostalgia.”
“The reality is that nostalgia matters. And when you remove popular items without controlling the narrative or managing customers’ expectations, you are bound to have upset patrons,” he said.
“Whether it’s due to rising food costs, kitchen timing or any other reason, it’s important to communicate with the people who put you on the map in the first place. Communication matters.”
Rachel Love, a self-described Cracker Barrel enthusiast from Tennessee, said one discontinued favorite remains at the top of her wish list.
“I absolutely loved the black-eyed peas, and I’m so glad they’re getting some attention,” Love told Fox News Digital. “They were one of my favorite sides and always felt like such a classic part of the Cracker Barrel experience.”
Love also hopes the restaurant revives its baked apple dumpling, describing it as “the perfect comfort dessert” for a brand built on old-fashioned hospitality.
To her, the debate is about much more than a handful of discontinued recipes.
“People aren’t just asking for old menu items — they’re asking for the comfort and nostalgia that came with them,” she said.
“Sometimes bringing back one classic dish means more to loyal customers than introducing several new ones.”
That may be the lesson Cracker Barrel continues to learn the hard way.
Customers aren’t asking the chain to reinvent itself.
They’re asking it to remember what made it successful.
They want the front porch.
They want the country store.
They want the breakfasts, the classic sides, and the timeless comfort food that turned Cracker Barrel into an American institution.
For many loyal diners, nostalgia isn’t a weakness.
It’s the brand.
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Mamdani Kicked Out — He’s Livid After Latest Announcement
Backlash against New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani continues to mount, with the Democratic Socialist facing another public rebuke after reportedly being denied the opportunity to speak at the funeral of a U.S. Army soldier killed during an Iranian missile attack.
According to multiple reports, Mamdani attended Friday’s funeral for Army Sgt. Angel Sarah Rampersad in Queens but remained silent throughout the service after the soldier’s family reportedly chose not to have him address mourners.
Rampersad was one of three American service members killed in Jordan during an Iranian attack on July 17.
The funeral was held at a church in Ozone Park, where elected officials, community leaders, family members and fellow mourners gathered to honor the 28-year-old soldier’s sacrifice.
According to the New York Post, Mamdani appeared to review prepared remarks on an iPad while other dignitaries spoke, but his name was never called.
A source familiar with the funeral told The Post the decision came directly from Rampersad’s family, which reportedly wanted to keep politics out of the ceremony.
The family chose not to have Mayor Zohran Mamdani speak in an effort to avoid what the source described as “political distractions.”
After the funeral concluded, the mayor’s office released the remarks Mamdani had planned to deliver.
“It is often said that our fallen ‘gave their tomorrows for our today,’” Mamdani planned to say.
“Sergeant Rampersad had tomorrows waiting for her: birthdays, ordinary mornings, evenings spent with her loved ones,” his remarks continued.
“But she gave every one of them up so that we could have ours — so that we could stand here today, safe and protected,” he was to say.
New York Gov. Kathy Hochul, however, did address those gathered and offered an emotional tribute to the fallen soldier.
“I feel after reading and admiring this woman from a distance, I feel like she could be one of my daughters,” Hochul said.
Other speakers included Ozone Park Residents Block Association President Sam Esposito, state Sen. Joseph Addabbo Jr., and Queens Borough President Donovan Richards.
According to the Department of War, Sgt. Angel Sarah Rampersad, 28, of Ozone Park, New York, was killed in action during an enemy attack at Muwaffaq Salti Air Base in Jordan.
U.S. Central Command said Rampersad and two fellow service members were killed while American and coalition forces defended against Iranian ballistic missile and drone attacks.
The other fallen Americans were identified as 1st Lt. Tyler James Feehan, 25, of Ewa Beach, Hawaii, and Pvt. Isabella Gonzales, 19, of Carrollton, Texas.
All three were deployed to Jordan in support of Operation Inherent Resolve, the international mission to combat ISIS in Iraq and Syria.
Rampersad served with the 1st Battalion, 57th Air Defense Artillery Regiment, 52d Air Defense Artillery Brigade, 10th Army Air and Missile Defense Command in Ansbach, Germany.
She worked as a 25U Signal Operations Support Specialist, according to the Department of War.
One person who attended the funeral told the newspaper the mayor appeared visibly upset after realizing he would not be invited to speak.
“He looked over at his staff, frustrated and seemed angry that he didn’t speak,” the source told the Post.
The attendee said Mamdani eventually understood that his name would not be called, glanced toward members of his staff, and put away the tablet that reportedly contained his prepared remarks.
Another source cited by the newspaper said the decision reflected the wishes of Rampersad’s family, describing them as politically conservative and supportive of President Donald Trump.
“The family is more conservative and wanted to limit any political distractions,” the source told the Post.
Neither Mamdani’s office nor members of the Rampersad family have publicly confirmed the account explaining why the mayor was not invited to speak.
Although he never addressed the congregation during the service, the mayor’s office later publicly released the remarks he had prepared, bringing attention to a moment that underscored the growing political controversy surrounding New York City’s new mayor.
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GOP Just Passed It 232-288 — Pelosi And AOC Lose It On House Floor
The House of Representatives delivered a major victory this week for Americans with disabilities who want the opportunity to work instead of being trapped by a broken federal bureaucracy.
In a bipartisan vote, lawmakers approved legislation aimed at dismantling long-standing barriers within the Social Security Disability Insurance program that critics say have discouraged work and punished self-sufficiency for decades.
H.R. 8884, the **Removing Barriers to Work for Disabled Americans Act**, sponsored by Rep. Austin Scott, R-Ga., passed the House by a vote of 232-188 and now heads to the Senate, where it has been referred to the Committee on Finance.
The legislation restores an important tool that the Social Security Administration lost when its demonstration authority expired in 2022.
Under the bill, the SSA would once again be authorized to test practical reforms under the Social Security Disability Insurance program through Dec. 31, 2030, with demonstration projects continuing through the end of 2031.
Rather than permanently rewriting federal law, the agency would be able to pilot innovative approaches designed to help beneficiaries who are able and willing return to the workforce.
The legislation includes significant safeguards. Participation would be entirely voluntary, and no participant could receive less total income as a result of joining one of the demonstration projects.
Supporters say those protections make the bill a common-sense effort to modernize a system that has too often discouraged Americans from pursuing employment.
House Ways and Means Committee Chairman Jason Smith, R-Mo., argued the current system is failing many of the very people it was designed to help.
“With over 60 percent of Social Security Disability Insurance recipients expressing an interest in returning to the workforce but less than one percent leaving the program because of a successful return to work each year, the Social Security Administration’s complex rules and regulations are clearly failing to deliver for too many Americans,” Smith said.
“Giving the SSA the authority to test innovative ways to better help disabled Americans pursue gainful employment is pure common sense, and this legislation goes a step further to ensure participation in any new system is both voluntary and will not reduce a beneficiary’s total income,” Smith added.
Smith pointed to what he described as a massive disconnect between Americans who want to work and those who are actually able to do so under the current system.
For years, disability recipients have warned that attempting to return to work can trigger a maze of complicated regulations, overpayment disputes, benefit cliffs, and uncertainty that ultimately makes taking a job financially risky.
Rather than encouraging independence, critics say the current structure often rewards staying on the sidelines.
Supporters argue H.R. 8884 takes a fundamentally different approach.
Instead of expanding government programs or imposing sweeping permanent reforms without evidence, the legislation gives the Social Security Administration the flexibility to test targeted solutions, evaluate the results, and determine what actually helps Americans reenter the workforce before making lasting policy changes.
Backers say the measure reflects a core conservative principle: government assistance should serve as a bridge to opportunity—not a permanent barrier to self-reliance.
The bill recognizes that having a disability does not automatically mean someone is unable to work and that federal policy should encourage those who are capable of seeking employment rather than penalizing them for trying.
The legislation also broadens the agency’s authority to include additional populations, including blind Americans, expanding the reach of future demonstration projects.
The proposal advanced through the House with bipartisan support after clearing the Ways and Means Committee, where lawmakers from both parties acknowledged that the current disability system leaves too many Americans behind.
Still, Republicans led the charge, arguing that practical reforms backed by measurable results are preferable to expanding entitlement programs or making permanent changes without first proving they work.
The bill now moves to the Senate, where lawmakers will decide whether to send it to President Donald Trump’s desk.
Supporters are urging swift action, arguing that restoring the SSA’s demonstration authority represents a fiscally responsible, low-cost reform that could help thousands of Americans regain the dignity, purpose, and financial independence that comes with meaningful work.
If enacted, the Social Security Administration would once again have the authority to launch carefully monitored pilot programs designed to improve employment outcomes, while reporting requirements would provide transparency and accountability as Congress evaluates which reforms deserve permanent consideration.
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