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The ultimate Mother’s Day game plan for dads who want to knock it out of the park this year
It’s that time again, fellas — time to let your moms (and the moms of your babies) know just how much you adore them.
Don’t panic! Mother’s Day isn’t until next weekend, May 10. But I figured I’d go ahead and hit you with our annual Mother’s Day Gift Guide now… you know, just in case you were thinking about waiting until the very last minute. Or worse, (gasp!) forgetting about the holiday altogether.
You would never, I know.
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For those who are new here, welcome. I’m Amber, and I write a column called Womansplaining on OutKick, where I give men a woman’s perspective on everything from dating and relationships to sex, marriage, and sometimes even celebrity romance drama and whatever nonsense is going viral on social media that week. Nothing is off-limits. We’re honest, we’re respectful, and we have fun here.
This column isn’t just for the boys, though. Ladies, you’re more than welcome — encouraged, actually — to chime in and share your two cents. Teamwork makes the dream work, baby!
At least, that’s what the poster in my niece’s kindergarten classroom says.
So with those pleasantries out of the way, let’s get into how you, gentlemen, can actually knock Mother’s Day 2026 out of the park.
I will preface this by saying these suggestions are not just my random musings. They are based on hard, scientific data. (Translation: me polling thousands of mothers via Facebook, Reddit and real life over the past three years of writing this column.)
Gentlemen, the results are in. And they are definitive.
I’ll save you a lot of time here. You don’t need to overthink this. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel. You don’t need to panic-buy something random at CVS at 9:47 p.m. on Saturday night.
God, please don’t do that.
Because when I ask moms what they actually want for Mother’s Day, the answer is almost comically consistent: Rest. Peace. A day where they are responsible for literally nothing.
Motherhood is a beautiful and honorable calling. It’s also exhausting — especially for the moms “in the trenches” with babies and little kids who require something every 3.5 seconds.
And no, this isn’t to say grandmas and moms of grown kids don’t deserve to be celebrated. They absolutely do. But dads, if your wife is currently wiping butts, packing lunches, answering 47 questions before 8 a.m. and hasn’t sat down in peace since 2019… she doesn’t want a chaotic brunch reservation where she still ends up managing the kids. And she definitely doesn’t want to cook.
As one mom told me, she wants “a day where I make zero decisions.”
Another said she imagines heaven as “waking up to a spotless house and the smell of bacon.”
Fellas, I think we’re seeing a pattern here.
The good news is that you don’t have to scramble to book a luxury vacation or drop three month’s salary on diamonds. Although I’m sure she wouldn’t mind that, either.
But it’s really very simple.
Plan the entire day: Emphasis on the entire. Not “what do you want to do?” Not “where should we eat?” She should not have to use a single brain cell today.
You are now in charge of the kids: All day. Start to finish. Meals, snacks, outfits, sunscreen, meltdowns — it’s your time to shine, Daddio.
Handle the meals: Breakfast, lunch and dinner. They’re all up to you, whether you’re cooking, buying or ordering in.
Give her alone time: Real alone time. Not “I’ll take the kids for 20 minutes while you shower.” We’re talking hours. A nap. A bath. Silence. Maybe even plan a full day where she does whatever she wants with zero responsibilities.
Clean the house: Or better yet, hire someone to do it. And not just a quick tidy. I’m talking deep clean — baseboards, bathrooms, all of it. Year after year, this is one of the most requested “gifts” I hear from moms.
If you do all of these things, she’s going to have a great day. If you’re looking for some gift ideas, too, the next section is for you.
Those who have been reading Womansplaining for a while know that flowers are a non-negotiable for special occasions — birthdays, anniversaries, Valentine’s Day and, yes, Mother’s Day.
Ladies love flowers.
I don’t care how many times a woman has told you, “Oh, you don’t need to get me flowers. They just die anyway.”
They’re lying. Trying to appease you.
I mean, sure, some ladies are more into flowers than others. But no woman will ever be upset about her man walking through the front door with a smile and a fresh bouquet. That is a freebie. An uncontested lay-up. Take it.
But if you’re ready to go beyond that, buckle up. Because I’ve got some gift ideas, too.
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Something sentimental: A handwritten card from you telling her how much you adore her. A note from the kids telling her she’s the best mom in the whole world. Something that lets her know how special she is to your family.
An example: Decades ago, my mom bought my grandma a mother’s ring containing the tiny birthstones of all six of her kids. Until the day she died, my grandma never took off that ring.
Another example from reader Carol C.: “My son-in-law arranged for a photo shoot of my daughters, my granddaughters, my mom and me. Four generations of women. My mom is gone now, and I’m so grateful I have these pictures, I look at them every day.”
I’m not crying, you’re crying.
A gift that supports her hobbies outside of motherhood: This came up a lot. Workout classes, hiking gear, gardening supplies, books, skincare, whatever she’s into outside of raising tiny humans.
A gift card for a spa day or mani/pedi: I know gift cards sort of get a bad rap for being impersonal, but I also know a lot of men are clueless about services offered at a spa. Does she want a massage (Swedish or deep-tissue?), a facial (HydraFacial, chemical peel, anti-aging?) or specialized treatments (like hot stones, lymphatic drainage or microdermabrasion?) On her nails, does she like gel or dip? If you have no idea what many of those words mean, your best bet is a gift card to a nice spa — that way she can choose her own adventure.
If you look around, many spas offer packages for special occasions like Mother’s Day.
For example, I go to the Woodhouse Spa near my house in Tennessee (but they have locations in 25 different states), and if you buy a $250 gift card, you get a free luxury skin care set. Fellas, imagine the brownie points you will earn.
A “treat yourself” self-care splurge she wouldn’t buy on her own:
I’ve even had several women tell me they want Botox as a gift. There’s a very important caveat there, though. Do not, under any circumstance, buy your wife Botox unless she has directly, explicitly asked for it. The same goes for exercise equipment.
A night in a hotel by herself: I swear women scream this every year, and every year, male readers email me to tell me it’s dumb. But I am telling you, guys. If you have young kids at home (or even moody teenagers), your wife will lose her mind with excitement over a stay in a local hotel by herself. Let her sleep in, order room service and watch trashy reality TV in a plush robe without a single interruption.
If you really want to knock her socks off, prepare for her a little go-basket for her night away: a book/magazine, a bottle of wine, a bath bomb, her favorite snacks, a sleep mask. My goodness.
Of course, this hotel stay away from her children doesn’t have to be on Mother’s Day. Plan it for the night before, the weekend after, whatever makes sense for your schedule.
Just my two cents, but if you booked her a hotel stay on Saturday night and she came home to a brunch already prepared in a clean house on Mother’s Day… let’s just say you may end up with another kid in about nine months.
I have given you the game plan. Now let’s make sure you don’t fumble at the goal line.
If you have young kids, this is on you. They can’t plan a day. They can’t cook breakfast. They can’t drive to Target. You are the entire operation.
Yes, celebrate your mom — but don’t forget your wife. Your mom will be thrilled with a call, a card, flowers, a meal, time with her family. And she should get those things! The mother of your children — who is actively in the trenches — deserves a full-court press.
Do not take her somewhere she still has to “mom.” If you drag her to a family cookout where she’s chasing kids, prepping food and cleaning up while you’re working the grill with a beer… you have missed the point entirely.
“Don’t buy her anything she has to plug in.” A reader named Bruce shared this bit of wisdom with me last year, and I now include it in every Womansplaining gift guide. Sure, there are exceptions to everything. But in general, this is a very good rule to follow. Home appliances, cooking gadgets, vacuum cleaners… these are not thoughtful gifts. They are chores.
And one final reminder: this is not an attack on you, dads. I’m assuming you’re a great dad. I’m assuming you’re pulling your weight. But my scientific research (again, thousands of moms) has made one thing very clear: Mama needs a break. She longs to relax and be pampered.
Mother’s Day is your chance to give her exactly that.
I’ve laid out the plan. I’ve made it easy for you. It’s up to you to execute. And remember, your day is next month.
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Michelle Obama Brutally Humiliated During White House UFC Event
UFC fighter Josh Hokit delivered the biggest victory of his professional career Sunday night during UFC Freedom 250 on the South Lawn of the White House, but it was his post-fight comments—not his performance inside the cage—that quickly became the most talked-about moment of the evening.
The historic event, held as part of celebrations marking America’s 250th anniversary and President Donald Trump’s 80th birthday, drew a massive audience and created one of the most unique settings in UFC history. With the White House serving as the backdrop, the event featured a series of high-profile bouts and attracted significant national attention.
Following his victory over heavyweight contender Derrick Lewis, Hokit took the microphone for a post-fight interview and delivered a remark that immediately generated reactions both inside the venue and across social media.
Addressing the crowd, Hokit shouted, “Michelle Obama is a man. Am I right, America?”
Josh Hokit just called Michelle Obama “a man” on the mic after winning at UFC Freedom 250.
HOKIT: “Hey, shout out to Trump for having the balls to put some sh*t like this on!”
“And if I’m going to say anything, there’s only person more incredible than the Incredible Hulk and… pic.twitter.com/ydNPIEEHww
— Overton (@overton_news) June 15, 2026
He then exited the ring as many spectators cheered and reacted to the unexpected statement.
The comment quickly sparked discussion online, where supporters and critics debated both the appropriateness of the remark and the long-running rumors it referenced.
Claims regarding former First Lady Michelle Obama have circulated on the internet for years. The allegations have repeatedly appeared on social media, podcasts, and alternative media platforms despite a lack of evidence supporting them.
Various public figures, including media personalities Alex Jones and Jason Whitlock, have discussed the claims over the years, helping keep the topic alive among some audiences. However, major fact-checking organizations and news outlets have consistently reported that there is no evidence supporting the allegation.
According to Snopes, versions of the theory have been circulating since at least 2008. Interest in the claim increased significantly in 2014 after a video surfaced showing late comedian Joan Rivers making comments about Michelle Obama and former President Barack Obama while speaking with a passerby in New York City.
Since then, the rumor has periodically resurfaced online, often gaining traction during election cycles or major political events. At one point, the claim even appeared on the social media page of a Republican state lawmaker in Kentucky, further fueling public discussion.
Several media organizations, including Snopes, PolitiFact, USA Today, Agence France-Presse, and Reuters, have published reports examining and disputing various aspects of the allegations. Despite those reports, the rumors have continued to circulate among some segments of the public.
Hokit’s comments ensured the topic would once again receive national attention. The timing was particularly notable given the size of the audience watching UFC Freedom 250 and the symbolic nature of the event itself.
For many viewers, the focus remained on Hokit’s upset victory and the celebration surrounding America’s 250th anniversary. Others, however, immediately shifted their attention to the fighter’s controversial remarks, which quickly spread across social media platforms and political commentary programs.
Whether viewed as political commentary, a provocative joke, or a genuine statement of belief, Hokit’s post-fight comments became one of the most widely discussed moments of the night, ensuring that an event already destined to make headlines would generate even more attention in the days that followed.
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$470 Million Obama Scandal Just Blown Wide Open
New questions are being raised about the financial future of the Obama Presidential Center as critics warn that taxpayers could ultimately be left footing the bill if the project encounters long-term financial trouble.
The concerns stem from growing scrutiny over a promised $470 million endowment that was intended to shield Chicago residents and Illinois taxpayers from future liabilities associated with the massive presidential center. According to reports, the Obama Foundation has yet to fully fund the reserve despite earlier commitments made as part of its agreement with the city of Chicago.
At the same time, a Fox News Digital investigation has uncovered complaints from multiple contractors and subcontractors who claim they have suffered significant financial losses while working on the project. Some businesses reportedly say they remain locked in payment disputes involving hundreds of thousands—and in some cases millions—of dollars.
The allegations have fueled fresh concerns about the project’s financial management as the center moves closer to opening.
Under the agreement negotiated with Chicago officials, the Obama Foundation was granted a 99-year lease on approximately 19.3 acres of publicly owned land within Jackson Park. In exchange, the foundation agreed to establish a substantial endowment intended to cover future operating and maintenance expenses, ensuring taxpayers would not be responsible if the project encountered financial challenges down the road.
The lease itself reportedly required only a one-time payment of $10, making the promised endowment one of the key safeguards designed to protect the public.
However, questions continue to linger about whether that commitment has been fulfilled.
According to previously reported financial disclosures, the Obama Foundation contributed just $1 million to the reserve fund in 2021. Publicly available filings suggest the amount has remained largely unchanged since then, despite the foundation’s earlier pledge to establish a fund worth hundreds of millions of dollars.
The issue has become even more significant as construction costs have dramatically exceeded initial projections.
When first announced, the Obama Presidential Center was expected to cost roughly $330 million. That estimate later ballooned to at least $850 million, according to figures released in 2021. Despite the sharp increase, no updated final project cost has been publicly disclosed, leaving many observers questioning how much the project will ultimately cost and whether adequate financial protections are in place.
Illinois Republican Party Chairman Robert Grogan says the lack of progress on the endowment raises serious concerns.
“One of their core promises was they were supposed to create an endowment as basically an insurance policy so the taxpayers wouldn’t get stuck with the bill,” Illinois GOP Chair Robert Grogan told Fox News Digital outside the center last week.
“They promised hundreds of millions of dollars for it. It’s still sitting at the $1 million mark [where it stood] when they opened it up. So I don’t believe that they’ve kept that promise,” he added.
Critics argue that the growing disputes involving contractors only add to concerns about the project’s overall financial stability. Several businesses reportedly claim they remain engaged in lengthy payment battles, creating additional questions about how the center’s finances are being managed.
The Obama Foundation has pushed back against suggestions that taxpayers face any immediate risk. Foundation officials have repeatedly emphasized that the presidential center is being funded through private donations and that public funds are not being used to finance construction or operations.
Nevertheless, critics remain skeptical.
Grogan argued that if the center eventually struggles financially, taxpayers could still find themselves responsible for maintaining the property due to its location on public land.
“The fact that they have created this probably unsustainable edifice to an ego and then, eventually, if it goes under, who’s going to be caught with the bill time and time again?” he asked.
“It’s the taxpayers of the city, citizens of Chicago, and the state of Illinois.”
Legal experts who have followed the project for years say the endowment was specifically designed to address those concerns.
Richard Epstein, a New York University law professor who has challenged aspects of the project in court, argued that the reserve fund serves as a critical financial backstop.
“The whole point of an endowment is to fund future expenses,” Epstein told Fox News Digital.
According to Epstein, if future fundraising efforts fail to generate sufficient revenue and the endowment remains underfunded, the property could eventually fall into disrepair.
“If the endowment hasn’t been filled, the building [could] fall into neglect, it then becomes a safety risk, and it turns out that nobody’s going to pay the bill,” Epstein said.
“The city, therefore, is going to have to assume additional obligations to make sure that thing is kept in place.”
As the Obama Presidential Center nears completion, the debate over its finances is unlikely to fade. Supporters continue to defend the project as a privately funded landmark and economic investment for Chicago’s South Side. Critics, however, say unanswered questions about the endowment, rising construction costs, and contractor disputes deserve greater public scrutiny before taxpayers are asked to trust that they will never be left holding the bill.
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Dem Senator Fetterman Drops Stunning News On Switching Parties
Sen. John Fetterman is once again finding himself at odds with his own party, highlighting the growing divide between establishment Democrats and lawmakers willing to challenge the far-left direction of the modern Democratic Party.
Since arriving in Washington in 2023, the Pennsylvania Democrat has repeatedly broken ranks with party leaders on several major issues, earning criticism from progressive activists while drawing praise from Republicans who see him as one of the few Democrats willing to speak candidly about the party’s growing ideological problems.
Those tensions have only intensified ahead of the 2026 midterm elections, as Democrats fight to regain control of the Senate and Republicans look to protect their majority.
In recent months, several prominent Republicans have openly discussed the possibility of Fetterman switching parties, citing his increasingly independent positions on issues ranging from immigration and government spending to support for Israel.
Pennsylvania Republican Party Chairman Greg Rothman suggested last month that Republicans could potentially support Fetterman’s reelection if he were willing to join the GOP. President Donald Trump has also publicly expressed admiration for Fetterman’s willingness to challenge Democratic orthodoxy.
During an appearance with Fox News host Sean Hannity, Trump even joked that Hannity should encourage Fetterman to become a Republican in exchange for presidential support.
The relationship between Trump and Fetterman has become one of the more surprising political developments in Washington. Shortly after Trump’s decisive victory in the 2024 presidential election, Fetterman and his wife visited the president at Mar-a-Lago, sparking speculation that the Pennsylvania senator was continuing to distance himself from his party’s activist wing.
Despite those rumors, Fetterman has repeatedly insisted he has no intention of leaving the Democratic Party.
“Being an independent voice that works with the other side to deliver for Pennsylvanians might put me at odds with the party that I have stayed committed to and have no plans to leave — but I will continue to put the commonwealth and the country first,” Fetterman wrote in a recent opinion piece.
“Plus, I’d be a terrible Republican who still votes overwhelmingly with Democrats,” he added.
Still, Fetterman acknowledged that his party has increasingly abandoned positions that were once mainstream Democratic priorities, specifically citing support for Israel and efforts to keep the federal government open and fully funded.
While he continues to vote with Democrats on many issues, Fetterman has emerged as one of the most vocal critics of the party’s progressive wing. He has frequently challenged left-wing activists over immigration enforcement, national security issues, support for Israel, and efforts to shut down the government during budget disputes.
His frustration with fellow Democrats was on full display during a recent appearance on Fox News’ “The Ingraham Angle,” where he blasted Maine Democratic Senate nominee Graham Platner and questioned why Democrats appear willing to overlook behavior they would normally condemn.
“If he was a Republican, how would Democrats describe him?” Fetterman asked.
“And the descriptions would be accurate for all of those things. They would declare that this guy is a degenerate.”
Fetterman was referring to several controversies surrounding Platner, including allegations involving his personal conduct and a tattoo that Platner later covered after learning of its association with Nazi symbolism.
“You know, he cheats on his wife, and he has Nazi tattoos,” Fetterman said.
“We’re the party of pearl-clutching, and now we’ve embraced it because, well, we don’t have a choice,” Fetterman added.
Platner recently secured the Democratic nomination for Senate in Maine and will challenge longtime Republican Sen. Susan Collins in what is expected to be one of the most closely watched races of the 2026 election cycle.
The campaign has already been dogged by controversy. In addition to scrutiny surrounding the tattoo, Platner has faced criticism over old online comments, reports of sexually explicit text messages exchanged with multiple women while he was married, and allegations regarding his personal behavior.
Fetterman suggested Democrats are applying a clear double standard by defending Platner simply because he carries the party’s banner.
“You can excuse all this because he’s got a D after his name,” Fetterman said. “But he’s not even a Democrat.”
While Fetterman stopped short of endorsing Collins, his comments once again underscored the growing frustration many Americans have with partisan hypocrisy in Washington. At a time when Democrats are hoping to retake the Senate, one of their own senators is publicly calling out what he views as blatant double standards within the party.
The remarks are likely to further fuel speculation about Fetterman’s political future, even as he continues to insist that he remains a Democrat.
For Republicans and Trump supporters, however, Fetterman’s willingness to challenge his own party serves as further evidence that even some Democrats are becoming increasingly uncomfortable with the direction the party has taken in recent years.
With Republicans currently holding a 53-47 Senate majority and Democrats needing four seats to regain control, races like Maine’s could play a pivotal role in determining the balance of power in Washington. But if Fetterman’s comments are any indication, Democrats may have to overcome divisions within their own ranks before they can focus on defeating Republicans in November.
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